Big Sister Coaching And Training
It's all about the energy of life, so stop wasting your will power!
It's all about the energy of life, so stop wasting your will power!
Image via Wordle
I have spoken with hundreds, if not thousands of people in my personal and professional career, about their hopes and dreams and fears. It has given me a lot of insight into how people approach their life, and their sense of control over their own destiny. I created the following categorisations to help explain the differences in outlook.
Level 1 Destiny
Imagine your life is like a boat on an ocean, being tossed around by the waves and the winds. Sometimes things are smooth, sometimes things are scary.
You go to see a clairvoyant to see what the future holds, because you feel like you have very little control over where life takes you. You hope for the best, but fear for the worst. Your life tends to look like it belongs in a soap opera because there is just so much drama.
You do not feel as if you have any control over your own destiny, and are very vulnerable to superstitions and being controlled by anyone who suggests they can influence the guaranteed positive outcome of your life.
What is the destiny of a Level 1 traveller, you ask? Is it their potential or their actual circumstances they feel themselves to be trapped by?
Level 2 Destiny
The next level is more pro-active. You become aware of a destination you would like to arrive at, and you decide to invest in learning advanced navigation skills, so that you can take better control over the journey.
You learn what you need to learn, you take courses in success, motivation and goal setting.
You also go to a clairvoyant to get confirmation that you are on course for your desires.
You at least feel like you’re giving yourself a fighting chance to guarantee a happy ending.
Level 3 Destiny
You are now a master traveller. You recognise there are hidden currents guiding your journey, not just the obvious ones like the waves and the winds.
You learn about these unseen forces that impact on your life, and like a master navigator, you learn to chart your course away from turmoil, conflict and upheaval, so that your journey is as smooth sailing as possible. You look forward to challenges simply to improve your own mastery.
You may also go to a clairvoyant to discover further hidden forces that you may not have been aware of, that may still derail you. These hidden forces could also be from your own subconscious mind, in the form of unresolved issues, or vulnerabilities in your character.
For you, the pleasure of life is not so much in arriving anywhere, as it is in the fun of getting there.
Level 4 Destiny.
On the surface, you look like a Destiny 1 traveller, being pushed around by the winds and the waves. But your personal philosophy is much more highly evolved. You have abandoned your will, and allow yourself to be used by the Universe to be where you are needed. You certainly do not have the same sense of fear experienced by level 1 travellers.
There are very few travellers at this level – but people like Gandhi come to mind.
Now, for many of us, especially those who have reached this blog, we tend to fluctuate between different levels of awareness. From my experience, I can confidently say that the vast majority of our culture is stuck at level 1.
Comments